A marriage proposal or a special ring gift should above all be one thing: a surprise. But before that comes the same question – how do you find out the right ring size without the other person noticing?
A ring that is too big can slip off, while one that is too small can spoil the moment of putting it on. To make sure everything fits, we have put together the most reliable and discreet methods for you.
1. Use an existing ring
This is the most reliable method. Briefly borrow a ring that your partner often wears on the same finger – ideally the ring finger.
The paper method
Place the ring on a sheet of paper and carefully trace the inner circle with a fine pencil. The size can be determined from this drawing – we are happy to do this in our store.
The impression
Carefully press the ring into a soft piece of soap or modeling clay. Clean it thoroughly before putting it back.
Your own finger as a gauge
Slide the ring onto one of your own fingers and mark with a pen where it sits well. This spot can be measured later.
2. Help from those around you
Your partner’s family and friends often know more than you think:
- Best friend or mother: Let them in on the secret carefully. The ring size may already have been mentioned in passing.
- The shared shopping trip: A friend can seemingly by chance take your partner to a jeweler and have them try on rings.
3. Measuring while they sleep
Deep sleepers often do not notice when someone measures carefully.
The thread or paper strip test
Wrap a narrow strip of paper or a non-stretch thread around the ring finger and mark where the ends meet. The length in millimeters corresponds to the German ring size, for example 54 mm = size 54. Fingers change slightly with the time of day and temperature – if in doubt, choose the next size up.
4. A look in the jewelry box
Sometimes you do not need to move a ring at all: old invoices, certificates or ring boxes from previously bought rings often state the size directly, such as 52, 54 or 56.
If the ring does not fit perfectly
No need to worry: many rings can be adjusted afterwards. If you are torn between two sizes, go by the most common women’s sizes between 52 and 54. Making a ring smaller is usually easier than making it larger.
Already have a model in mind? Discover our gold rings and our latest pieces – we are happy to advise you.
